Welcome to the Committed Program!
Below are the modules and exercises to help you through the process of healing
If you'd like to heal your marriage and restore the trust and connection, then reading this letter will be one of the best investments you could make in your relationship...
module 1- overcoming the addiction
Find clarity and understanding about why the addiction hasn’t gone away, what you can do about, and how you can find the freedom that you need so you’re not continuing to be sucked into it’s spiral.
module 2 - How to heal the betrayal trauma
Find clarity and understanding about why the addiction hasn’t gone away, what you can do about, and how you can find the freedom that you need so you’re not continuing to be sucked into it’s spiral.
module 3 - The key to connected Communication
Discover the most overlooked principles of communication that leave people feeling stuck, overwhelmed and disconnected. Stop fighting about the same things over and over again without a resolution, and begin to find a greater sense of closeness, feeling understood, loved, and respected again.
(Print 2 copies so you each can fill the worksheets out, and then share your answers with each other.)
module 4 - Rebuilding Trust
Discover the most overlooked principles of communication that leave people feeling stuck, overwhelmed and disconnected. Stop fighting about the same things over and over again without a resolution, and begin to find a greater sense of closeness, feeling understood, loved, and respected again.
module 5 - Creating the kind of marriage that fulfills you
Discover the roadmap for creating a long-term successful life and marriage and avoid the most common pitfalls. Implementing these key principles will solidify your chances of success and protect you from falling back into old patterns.
Reignite Sexual Intimacy Masterclass
Intimacy can be a powerful source of bonding and connection. Learn how to heal the damage that the addiction has done and create the kind of intimacy that brings fulfillment and strength to the marriage.
Bonus 1 - The Core 3 checklist
The CORE 3 Checklist is designed to give you a high-level view of the steps that are required to heal the addiction, her trauma, and the relationship. This will guide you and help direct you with regard to where you can put your energy and time in order to see the most gains on your journey.
Bonus 2 - The relapse prevention process
Discover the process and steps to overcome triggers and relapses, and learn how to process them in the relationship in a way the creates trust and unites you.
Bonus 3 - Healing Conversations Blueprint
Repairing the damage that has happened in the past is crucial to being able to connect and feel close to your spouse again. By fully resolving old hurts (in a healthy way), you can leave the past in the past and feel good about it.
Bonus 4 - Finding peace Through Forgiveness
Download the audio class below
In this program, you'll discover the keys to forgiving others and yourself, which brings clarity, peace, and stability in a way that few other things can provide. The research is clear about the physical and emotional health benefits of being able to forgive, and in this program we talk about forgiveness in a way that can happen instantly and safely.
It was 2AM.. He was watching pornography again..
his wife was going to be devastated when she found out, but in that moment, he didn't care...
My friend's marriage was a wreck.. The trust was completely gone. And his wife would sob or get angry each time she found out that he had watched porn...
We met when we were in college, and he shared his struggle with me while I was in grad school training to become a therapist. He told me he'd been battling with his porn addiction for over 13 years.
And he'd done everything he could think of and none of it worked – he'd have success for a few days, weeks, or months. But just when he thought he was in the clear and found freedom, he'd fail again.
As he told me about his struggle in a rundown office on campus, I knew that so many other men were battling the same thing. So I decided that I'd train to become an expert at helping men overcome their addiction and heal their relationship.
The problem was that all of the traditional approaches that everyone was teaching had such high failure rates...
Author and researcher, Zachary Dodes, wrote a book talking about how flawed the addiction industry is..
He found that 12-step had a 90-95% failure rate.
My friend was so desperate that he tried going to groups anyways, and he was not in the lucky 5% that was successful with it...
Maybe you've tried some of the things he did?
- 12-step group
- Willpower and Discipline
- Accountability Partners
- Filters on His Phone
- Therapy
- Prayer
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Distracting Himself
But none of those things helped him eradicate the addiction from his life for good...
I discovered that the reason why these things fail is because they don't address the core of addiction
Many people wonder, "What is at the core of addiction?"
It's unpleasant or painful emotions –
Addiction is a destructive way to cope with emotional pain, loneliness, boredom, stress, and low self-worth.
And in order for the addiction to be completely eradicated, you must address things on a deeper level..
...but that sounds really hard...
The good news is that it's easier and takes far LESS work to address things at the root level instead of constantly battling against urges and temptations using willpower.
Think about it like this –
Is it hard to chop down a tree?
It depends...
Are you using a butter knife or a chainsaw?
Does it take energy to use a chainsaw?
Sure.
But will it be a breeze compared to using a dull butter knife?
100%.
I teach men powerful tools that resolve the core of addiction instead of relying on willpower, distracting themselves, or pushing through a temptation
Simply click on the link below and I'll send you these 5 tools in an audio format so you can listen whenever, wherever.
Listen to Gabe's experience with my unique approach and how it changed the future of his life and family forever...
